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| ...the eyes of the Lord are on those who fear Him, on those whose HOPE is in His unfailing love, to deliver...and keep them alive... Psalm 33:18-19 |
| Questions & Answers |
For many of you, homosexuality isn't just a societal issue...it's
very personal. A son or daughter reveals a long-standing
struggle with same-sex attraction, a husband leaves his wife
for another man, a coworker shows up at the office picnic
with her female lover. In every case, there are questions we
want to ask but are reluctant to voice.
Here are the answers to the most often asked questions
about homosexuality from an expert on the subject - and a
former homosexual himself - Focus on the Family's Mike
Haley.
Whether you're personally impacted by homosexuality or
simply concerned about this controversial issue...Mike
Haley's 101 Frequently Asked Questions about Homosexuality
is a terrific resource. Learn how to address the issues
surrounding same-sex attraction and its implications for
society in this thought-provoking book by a man who's been
there.
Other links that you may find helpful are below. These links
are updated regularly.
very personal. A son or daughter reveals a long-standing
struggle with same-sex attraction, a husband leaves his wife
for another man, a coworker shows up at the office picnic
with her female lover. In every case, there are questions we
want to ask but are reluctant to voice.
Here are the answers to the most often asked questions
about homosexuality from an expert on the subject - and a
former homosexual himself - Focus on the Family's Mike
Haley.
Whether you're personally impacted by homosexuality or
simply concerned about this controversial issue...Mike
Haley's 101 Frequently Asked Questions about Homosexuality
is a terrific resource. Learn how to address the issues
surrounding same-sex attraction and its implications for
society in this thought-provoking book by a man who's been
there.
Other links that you may find helpful are below. These links
are updated regularly.
Is Bridge of Hope here to "cure" gays?
We exist to help men and women dissatisfied with living homosexually understand that same-sex
attractions can be overcome in various ways. It is not easy, but it is possible, as evidenced by the
thousands of men and women who have walked this difficult road successfully. Freedom from
homosexuality and same-sex attraction may come in various ways.
But your goal is still to make gays straight, right?
We aren’t here to “make” anybody do or become anything. Our goals include aiding parents who
want to learn how to better love their sons or daughters without compromising their faith; helping
people who want to better understand the many factors that can lead to someone adopting a
homosexual identity; and assisting those who struggle with unwanted same-sex attractions and
want to discover how they might also start upon the path ― a difficult path, as noted above ― to
overcoming those desires.
Do you believe homosexuality is a choice?
We do not believe anyone chooses his or her same-sex attractions. We concur with the American
Psychological Association’s position that homosexuality is likely developmental in nature and
caused by a “complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors” (www.apa.org).
We would also agree with the American Psychiatric Association when it states “some people believe
that sexual orientation is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across a person’s
lifetime.” If you ever hear us use the word “choice,” it is in relation to men and women who struggle
with unwanted same-sex attractions choosing to steward their impulses in a way that aligns with
their faith convictions.
Doesn’t God love everyone? Even homosexuals?
Jesus died for everyone and loves everyone, no matter their situations and life expereinces. What
you will hear is that God designed human sexuality to be enjoyed solely within the bounds of one-
man, one-woman marriage. Any sexual relationship outside of that design – heterosexual or
homosexual – falls short of God’s standard. God loves everyone!
This section is adapted from Love Won Out's FAQ section of their website.
For more information go to www.lovewonout.org.
We exist to help men and women dissatisfied with living homosexually understand that same-sex
attractions can be overcome in various ways. It is not easy, but it is possible, as evidenced by the
thousands of men and women who have walked this difficult road successfully. Freedom from
homosexuality and same-sex attraction may come in various ways.
But your goal is still to make gays straight, right?
We aren’t here to “make” anybody do or become anything. Our goals include aiding parents who
want to learn how to better love their sons or daughters without compromising their faith; helping
people who want to better understand the many factors that can lead to someone adopting a
homosexual identity; and assisting those who struggle with unwanted same-sex attractions and
want to discover how they might also start upon the path ― a difficult path, as noted above ― to
overcoming those desires.
Do you believe homosexuality is a choice?
We do not believe anyone chooses his or her same-sex attractions. We concur with the American
Psychological Association’s position that homosexuality is likely developmental in nature and
caused by a “complex interaction of environmental, cognitive and biological factors” (www.apa.org).
We would also agree with the American Psychiatric Association when it states “some people believe
that sexual orientation is innate and fixed; however, sexual orientation develops across a person’s
lifetime.” If you ever hear us use the word “choice,” it is in relation to men and women who struggle
with unwanted same-sex attractions choosing to steward their impulses in a way that aligns with
their faith convictions.
Doesn’t God love everyone? Even homosexuals?
Jesus died for everyone and loves everyone, no matter their situations and life expereinces. What
you will hear is that God designed human sexuality to be enjoyed solely within the bounds of one-
man, one-woman marriage. Any sexual relationship outside of that design – heterosexual or
homosexual – falls short of God’s standard. God loves everyone!
This section is adapted from Love Won Out's FAQ section of their website.
For more information go to www.lovewonout.org.
| Bridge of Hope does not profess to have all the answers. We merely want to be a supportive resource as you seek the answers to your burning questions concerning homosexuality. |
| For more information, e-mail us at bridgeofhope@bohcolumbus.com. Briefly explain how you found out about us and how our ministry can be of assistance to you. |